Upper St. Clair, Pennsylvania

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Juvenile Court Tips:
Keeping Middle School Children Safe

1. Keep your child busy; school, sports, cultural, church and scout groups as well as Parent or school-sponsored teen centers encourage kids to focus their energies.
2. All children should have responsibilities at home, as well as the opportunity to perform extra jobs for spending money. By encouraging volunteerism and part-time work (baby-sitting, lawn care), we encourage responsibility and a sense of both pride in performance and value in their labor.
3. Plan family activities and require whole family participation over any complaints, and try to participate in at least one school activity every year. This values their school efforts, and aids in development of a strong family sense of belonging and reduces the chances of their becoming involved in trouble.
4. Despite the fact that your middle-school child may act like an adult, he is not ready for many adult responsibilities. Pre-teens, and early teens may handle one or two chores, but are not ready to became part-time nannies or housekeepers.
5. Unfortunately, issues of drug and alcohol use, and sexual involvement are very real for middle school children from all backgrounds. Alcohol is still the most prevalent drug, however school security have reported an influx of other drugs in our middle schools as well. Most chemical abuse and sexual activity occurs at homes when parents are out. Do not allow your child to have friends over when you are not present. Try to alternate with the other parents to supervise groups of children for social events and parties. Make a real effort to know the parents of your child's friends. Agreement of rules for behavior (curfew, privileges, reporting to parents, etc.) can be set for the whole group, limiting conflict and helping you to stay informed (and in control).
6. Trust your instincts. If you are concerned about changes in your child, seek advice, counseling or help. Do not hesitate to say no to activities that make you uncomfortable for your child's safety or well being. You are, the parent and you must set the limits.

Loving Parents, Safe Neighborhoods, and Concerned Schools
Minimize the Likelihood of Your Child Being Involved With the Courts
as Either a Victim or as a Defendant.